Comments for When I Remember Love

Comment on Why Do Women Cheat When They Are Married? by George

George — Sun, 19 Feb 2012 19:44:06 +0000

I was stunned at how similar the experience was between the woman with a woman who has a great husband but a passionless marriage above and my own experience which continues today after nearly 14 yes. I would love to share the details if anyone is interested.

Comment on The facts and fantasies of Internet dating by Alice

Alice — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 14:49:44 +0000

Words, good and true!
Love ya!
A

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Comment on Why Do Women Cheat When They Are Married? by Emma Santos

Emma Santos — Thu, 16 Jun 2011 21:45:23 +0000

This is a hard topic to even write about, and very intriguing, every marriage is struggling to survive, and everyday is just a constant struggle, finances take a high peak, and the love and communication is lost, is hard to find peace of mind when you hardly spend time with you husband, especially if the communication is lost. Most women seek relationship outside their marriage thinking it will resolve her issues but instead it makes them worst, as women we need to learn the value of our marriage and what it once meant for us before making any mistakes of seeking only the sexual desires that our husbands cannot provide for us. I think men worry to much about their house income to be steady than worrying about their marriage, one of their biggest mistakes.

Thanks Trish for such a valuable topic and lesson.

Comment on Unforgettable Facebook Connections (Radio Interview) by Zahid Hussain Daudpota

Zahid Hussain Daudpota — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 01:37:25 +0000

Please give me an autograph Trish.. I am your fan.. )

Comment on Unforgettable Facebook Connections (Radio Interview) by Alan

Alan — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 22:20:40 +0000

My Trish! Wow, what an interview! Trish should become a politician, maybe our next governor in CA!

Comment on Book Reviews by Cheryl Resnick

Cheryl Resnick — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 00:58:33 +0000

Not only did I have the honor of reading this magnificent novel but I was so very blessed to have author, Trish Silver, as a guest on my blog talk radio show, Unforgettable Facebook Connections. The strangest thing is that although, I absolutely adored the book, from cover to cover, now that I am finished with it, it is having much more of an impact on me. The characters were so vivid and so welcoming that I cannot get them out of my mind. I love the way Trish was so descript in sharing their lovemaking and yet, I did not feel the novel was trashy at all…..if anything, it was so pure, so innocent and so beautifully written. I cannot wait to meet “my Aidan.” Thank you so much, Trish!

Comment on Why Do Women Cheat When They Are Married? by admin

admin — Thu, 19 May 2011 20:33:20 +0000

I just wanted to say what a great blog you wrote on a very painful subject matter. It seems that affairs happen too often, and before you know it you’re involved and smitten with the other person. However, I recently went through a similar experience which left me empty and heartbroken. Unfortunately, we can’t control our hearts…can we? I’m trying to re-establish my life and keep busy. I smile when I think of her, because she was one of a kind.

Trish, I check your site often because I loved your book, “When I Remember Love,” and am looking forward to the sequel, “Price Of Love.”

Your fan,
anonymous

Comment on Why Do Women Cheat When They Are Married? by Mark F

Mark F — Thu, 19 May 2011 19:18:53 +0000

Human nature is such that we desire things we don’t have. The concept of “fidelity” is one which is not necessarily natural, but rather a socially prescribed form of behavior.

This is not a “new” story – history of ages is wrought with salacious tales of adultery and complicated love lives, and has little to do with recent economic pressure on our personal lives. Or, more accurately, it goes far beyond this simple explanation.

Sexual dissatisfaction can result from one of many reasons – boredom, exogenous pressure, marital stress, or simple availability of temptation.

The key to a happy, successful marriage is communication, not simply monogamy. Indeed, there are a plenitude of happily married individuals who engage in open relationships, but we dare not speak of them since it’s considered taboo. I’m not saying “this” is the answer to cure all ails, but it’s evidence that a happy marriage can involve sex outside of the husband/wife relationship, as long as there is communication.

Affairs result as a communication breakdown, whether intentional or out of ignorance. One partner is simply not happy with the status quo, and the other is either unwilling, unable or unknowing as how to adapt.

I believe that we as a society put too much weight on the act of sex, which is a primary outlet and low order Maslowian fulfilment, when we should be focusing on the relationship. There are several alternates to simply “don’t cheat”: abstinence, masturbation, open relationships, or the other partner “giving it up more”, but until we can discuss sex in a more healthy and open fashion, we are doomed to the “gotcha” mechanism of blaming simply the “cheater” without examining underlying causes.

Comment on Book Reviews by Howard Fuchs

Howard Fuchs — Fri, 15 Apr 2011 23:00:15 +0000

Your book is fantastic, I’ve been reading it to my 18 year old daughter, she’s old enough to have sex now…I want her to learn about romantic relationships and what sex is all about. The problem is, every time I read it, I get so turned on that it makes it hard to read to my lovely daughter when I have a raging hard on. Still, it’s a great book to read and you’ve done a wonderific job!