I am a writer, who writes about, romance, love, marriage and the glorious sexual experience that’s one of the main benefits of marital bliss. The three are connected but there are many other elements.
One of the most important aspects in a relationship is a good conversation. When two people meet and are attracted to each other, it’s usually the original communication that ignites the romance. Remember, how the two of you had listened to the other intently the first time you met, and you gave one another your undivided attention. Remember when sparks flew and eyes locked…it was an exciting moment, and it doesn’t have to end. If you keep practicing this throughout your marriage, there would be stronger unions and fewer divorces. When he or she is excited about an intending rewarding experience, be excited for them and listen! Be their ally not their enemy. Listening is so important. It validates the person and makes them feel exceptional and confidant.
Sex is extremely important as well, in a relationship or marriage. It’s a way of connecting through self-expression. Believe me if your partner doesn’t find it from you, they will find it somewhere else. Enjoy monogamy without monotony.
The safest way to practice great sexual intimacy is foreplay. You can do this for hours and getting to know what make the other happy is the best prelude to the most gratifying sex life, even in the marriage bed. Honesty hurts sometimes, but it’s a great form of communication and forever sets a high standard that will benefit both of you in the long run.
I have decided to blog about what I write about and that’s romance, love, sex and marriage. I still believe in the sanctity of the marriage bed and the trust that’s established in the beginning of the relationship.
In my next blog, I will discuss “Advice to Men.” How they can attract a lady and therefore, begin a meaningful relationship. I think that we should start from the beginning and progress from there…don’t you?